"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how much effort you put to get sex?

pyros

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what's the average number of days you need to find a girl you find sexy and end up banging her?

I mean, we all know women can find a guy they find attractive to have sex with pretty easily. Men, however, have to 'work' a lot to get sex, it is not an easy task.
We have to get dozens of numers, go out, start conversations, use Tinder, facebook, bars, social circle...sometimes you dont feel like talking to random girls...etc.

So, if you started today to go out and meet girls, get numbers etc, when would you suceed? how many days would pass?
This is just a number to calculate how much effort you have to put to get the sex.

For example, in my case, it can vary from one month (being super optimistic) to one year or more (being more real/pesimistic).
I have little free time so I just go out to meet chicks once a week.

P.S.
I am excluding uglies, fatties, and weird women in general from this. Just women you do find attractive.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bingo-Player

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if i really needed it and i had spare cash / time available to facilitate it, im confident i could get it by tmorrow evening

ive got 2 chicks orbiting me who im pretty sure would pay good money to have my D in them

one is a single mother who holds little appeal to me but she has her own place and has made it clear i can come over to screw her whenever .......

the other ive screwed before, she lives about 400 miles away but is extremely keen to meet halfway

now if were talking about how long id need to invest in a woman i actually wanted.......

well again circumstances permitting id be confident i could get the job done within 8 weeks
 

CuddleJunkie

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This is why is vital to be exploring new plates constantly, because it takes some time to get a regular puss, and you don't want to end up on a dry spell. I think the english expression is "setting pipelines". My ideal situation, and the one I'm working towards is 3 regular plates and to get a new girl each week (and I mean working towards the bang, not actually banging her, lol), to explore possible new plates and have options on the phonebook in case a plate falls off. I'm far from this, yet, but I'm sure it is doable on a 3 years of DonJuaning around consistently.
 

Huffman

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Pretty much zero. Even when I have a long dry spell, I don't go to a random club thinking "man I must **** today". I do keep sex friends when I can, but I'm not desperate for them.

Random sex with strangers is exciting, but the act itself hasn't been too great for me.
I also don't play relationships just to secure sex; too much hassle in exchange for something that's not real.

Now that I'm not 20 anymore I really have to say it's way better if you have some real feelings going on ;) In that case you're also way hornier.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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