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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How much do you value looks in a woman?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DonGorgon
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she cant be below a 5 in looks but does not need to be a 10 at all im more about her style her vibe and her physical attitude..
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
60% looks, 40% personality, but one thing she must have is a sense of humor!!!!
it also helps if she likes sex, but not after one date, more like a few months. thats a respectable girlfriend, imo
it also helps if she likes sex, but not after one date, more like a few months. thats a respectable girlfriend, imo
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
I disagree, why do we respect that? "Oh, she's sacrificing her own personal enjoyment as well as my own in order to be accepted by society, what a respectable young lady."
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
maybe you're right. i just think that girls who great freaky on the first date aren't really girlfriend material? im new to the whole djing thing so i could be wrong.Exhumed said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
No, everyone has their preferences, though I'm curious to see what all of your opinions are on the subject...I would guess that for the most part the people here have no problem with a "liberated" woman as we strive to understand the source of women's reluctance to have sex or talk about sex and dismantle that mindset...
The girls I get along with best like sex and are open to discussing it, and consider girls who shy away from it to be hypocrites...and not all of these girls are super-sluts who f*ck on the first date; I wouldn't like to have sex on the first date...but not because society tells me not to.
So if I may temporarily deviate from the subject, how does your ideal woman view sex?
The girls I get along with best like sex and are open to discussing it, and consider girls who shy away from it to be hypocrites...and not all of these girls are super-sluts who f*ck on the first date; I wouldn't like to have sex on the first date...but not because society tells me not to.
So if I may temporarily deviate from the subject, how does your ideal woman view sex?
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Colossus said:
BINGO
This is a good thread, i gotta come read this in depth when I got more time
*book marks*
DJKid
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I 2nd that...DonGorgon said: