DJKid
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How much do you value looks in a woman?
- Thread starter DJKid
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonGorgon
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she cant be below a 5 in looks but does not need to be a 10 at all im more about her style her vibe and her physical attitude..
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
60% looks, 40% personality, but one thing she must have is a sense of humor!!!!
it also helps if she likes sex, but not after one date, more like a few months. thats a respectable girlfriend, imo
it also helps if she likes sex, but not after one date, more like a few months. thats a respectable girlfriend, imo
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
I disagree, why do we respect that? "Oh, she's sacrificing her own personal enjoyment as well as my own in order to be accepted by society, what a respectable young lady."
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
maybe you're right. i just think that girls who great freaky on the first date aren't really girlfriend material? im new to the whole djing thing so i could be wrong.Exhumed said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
No, everyone has their preferences, though I'm curious to see what all of your opinions are on the subject...I would guess that for the most part the people here have no problem with a "liberated" woman as we strive to understand the source of women's reluctance to have sex or talk about sex and dismantle that mindset...
The girls I get along with best like sex and are open to discussing it, and consider girls who shy away from it to be hypocrites...and not all of these girls are super-sluts who f*ck on the first date; I wouldn't like to have sex on the first date...but not because society tells me not to.
So if I may temporarily deviate from the subject, how does your ideal woman view sex?
The girls I get along with best like sex and are open to discussing it, and consider girls who shy away from it to be hypocrites...and not all of these girls are super-sluts who f*ck on the first date; I wouldn't like to have sex on the first date...but not because society tells me not to.
So if I may temporarily deviate from the subject, how does your ideal woman view sex?
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Colossus said:
BINGO
This is a good thread, i gotta come read this in depth when I got more time
*book marks*
DJKid
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I 2nd that...DonGorgon said: