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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How much do you value looks in a woman?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DonGorgon
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she cant be below a 5 in looks but does not need to be a 10 at all im more about her style her vibe and her physical attitude..
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
60% looks, 40% personality, but one thing she must have is a sense of humor!!!!
it also helps if she likes sex, but not after one date, more like a few months. thats a respectable girlfriend, imo
it also helps if she likes sex, but not after one date, more like a few months. thats a respectable girlfriend, imo
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
I disagree, why do we respect that? "Oh, she's sacrificing her own personal enjoyment as well as my own in order to be accepted by society, what a respectable young lady."
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
maybe you're right. i just think that girls who great freaky on the first date aren't really girlfriend material? im new to the whole djing thing so i could be wrong.Exhumed said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
No, everyone has their preferences, though I'm curious to see what all of your opinions are on the subject...I would guess that for the most part the people here have no problem with a "liberated" woman as we strive to understand the source of women's reluctance to have sex or talk about sex and dismantle that mindset...
The girls I get along with best like sex and are open to discussing it, and consider girls who shy away from it to be hypocrites...and not all of these girls are super-sluts who f*ck on the first date; I wouldn't like to have sex on the first date...but not because society tells me not to.
So if I may temporarily deviate from the subject, how does your ideal woman view sex?
The girls I get along with best like sex and are open to discussing it, and consider girls who shy away from it to be hypocrites...and not all of these girls are super-sluts who f*ck on the first date; I wouldn't like to have sex on the first date...but not because society tells me not to.
So if I may temporarily deviate from the subject, how does your ideal woman view sex?
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Colossus said:
BINGO
This is a good thread, i gotta come read this in depth when I got more time
*book marks*
DJKid
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I 2nd that...DonGorgon said: