DJKid
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How much do you value looks in a woman?
- Thread starter DJKid
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DonGorgon
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she cant be below a 5 in looks but does not need to be a 10 at all im more about her style her vibe and her physical attitude..
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
60% looks, 40% personality, but one thing she must have is a sense of humor!!!!
it also helps if she likes sex, but not after one date, more like a few months. thats a respectable girlfriend, imo
it also helps if she likes sex, but not after one date, more like a few months. thats a respectable girlfriend, imo
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
I disagree, why do we respect that? "Oh, she's sacrificing her own personal enjoyment as well as my own in order to be accepted by society, what a respectable young lady."
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
maybe you're right. i just think that girls who great freaky on the first date aren't really girlfriend material? im new to the whole djing thing so i could be wrong.Exhumed said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
No, everyone has their preferences, though I'm curious to see what all of your opinions are on the subject...I would guess that for the most part the people here have no problem with a "liberated" woman as we strive to understand the source of women's reluctance to have sex or talk about sex and dismantle that mindset...
The girls I get along with best like sex and are open to discussing it, and consider girls who shy away from it to be hypocrites...and not all of these girls are super-sluts who f*ck on the first date; I wouldn't like to have sex on the first date...but not because society tells me not to.
So if I may temporarily deviate from the subject, how does your ideal woman view sex?
The girls I get along with best like sex and are open to discussing it, and consider girls who shy away from it to be hypocrites...and not all of these girls are super-sluts who f*ck on the first date; I wouldn't like to have sex on the first date...but not because society tells me not to.
So if I may temporarily deviate from the subject, how does your ideal woman view sex?
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Colossus said:
BINGO
This is a good thread, i gotta come read this in depth when I got more time
*book marks*
DJKid
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I 2nd that...DonGorgon said: