"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How many women have you had sex with?

How many women have you had sex with?

  • 5 or less

    Votes: 18 22.0%
  • 10 to 20

    Votes: 19 23.2%
  • 20 or more

    Votes: 42 51.2%
  • 5 to 10

    Votes: 3 3.7%

  • Total voters
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jimwho

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The thing is, this has become so common place that even if it's not mentioned, the ad is still suspect, since the escorts can always screen people, especially if the escort is asking for your age and ethnicity/race. These days, unless it says "all races and nationalities are welcome" or "blacks welcomed", then you cant be sure.
Why do prostitutes/escort businesses say "no blacks" ??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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corrector

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Why do prostitutes/escort businesses say "no blacks" ??
Again its systemic racism. Everybody down on blacks for any bs reason where a white person would either get a pass or personally banned but not their whole race. Maybe its to keep racist police from targetting their operation.

Some ads say "black c0cks matter" a spin of BLM, and you might get the odd escort who only exclusively sees blacks and browns, or gives them a discount. Again these type of ads are once in a blue moon.
 

mrgoodstuff

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Most after 23, so about 10 years. Most were pump and dumps.
Did you have any long lays where you banged 100 or more times?

Did the pump and dumps teach you anything you would not have known with out them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Provide a quote where I said I was either hanging out with prostitutes or paying for sex.

Why do you think I would do that if I feel prostitute have demons who want to attack me and everyone else seems to get that this is a barrier to escortcelling?
I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.


Did you have any long lays where you banged 100 or more times?

Did the pump and dumps teach you anything you would not have known with out them?

Not for nothing, but most of these dudes, who've not posted pics of themselves stating they layed 20, 50, 100, 200 + females is bullsh!t. Just saying. I, and you, have both posted pics of ourselves. I cannot speak for you, but I've not layed 100+ females. I cut my ONS out after getting an STD once, so I curtailed my laying quite a bit since then.
 

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I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.
Either way, even as a generalization, it deflects from the issue. But I digress, almost no blacks on this board seem to have any issues with women and even @cola went with an Asian massage parlour, which means he has no problem accessing services he wants. I guess it's just @AttackFormation and myself.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.





Not for nothing, but most of these dudes, who've not posted pics of themselves stating they layed 20, 50, 100, 200 + females is bullsh!t. Just saying. I, and you, have both posted pics of ourselves. I cannot speak for you, but I've not layed 100+ females. I cut my ONS out after getting an STD once, so I curtailed my laying quite a bit since then.
I know if i lived a certain way, I could eventually get several new lays per week, but it would require a time investment, obviously a successful system, a lifestyle that's a great "bait" in itself, and it would be like a part time job. I do have satisfaction having gf's or positive contacts that i sleep with like i've done up until now, but perhaps going a few years and adding 100+ might not be so bad and we might learn something.
 

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I had a few relationships in that time, but I was never faithful. The dynamic would just be her trying to tie me down, and me doing whatever I wanted.

The vast majority, I'd say 90%, of my lays were one night stands. This was because I didn't want women getting attached to me because it weighed me down. I wanted to be free all the time. I discovered if I bang a woman once and ghost then it's usually a lot easier to get rid of her rather than if I bang her multiple times and ghost. If you bang her once and ghost, she's going to assume that you didn't like the sex. She can rationalize it. But if you bang her multiple times then you lose that Exit Strategy and she will feel much more entitled to your "commitment'.

It's kinda funny. My concerns were never around getting laid. I was only ever concerned about how I was going to get rid of her cleanly after I'd used her.

Pump and Dump - I learned that the more you get, the more you want. Greed is endless.

End Game for me now is being aware of sex addiction, and not letting it rule my life anymore.
Having sex at a reasonable rate is not an "addiction" and I know the powers that be and feminist included would wish 99% of men were sex deprived eunichs, and for them to desire a situation with sex a couple times a week would consider them a "sex addict" or "abusive to women".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I’m in my mid-twenties so the count is still 10-20. I also still believe in love (though I know most people on this forum don’t and would call me naïve) so I usually get to know the girl a bit first which I think is also uncommon on this forum. Usually I don’t bang on the first date (unless she’s smoking hot) and I don’t do male escorts which I suspect a lot of the people with 500+ counts have. However, I’m not a child and will bang if she asks me to, but I will wait a bit if she does not initiate it.
I don't really believe in love and I still like to get to know the person.
 

TheCharmingGuy

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I don't really believe in love and I still like to get to know the person.
I was saying that since I believe in love, I like to get to know the person first. I didn’t say that if you don’t believe in it then you don’t like getting to know them. Just that it’s more common with people like me.
 

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I was saying that since I believe in love, I like to get to know the person first. I didn’t say that if you don’t believe in it then you don’t like getting to know them. Just that it’s more common with people like me.
Oh, I know
 
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