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How many women have you had sex with?

How many women have you had sex with?

  • 5 or less

    Votes: 17 21.5%
  • 10 to 20

    Votes: 19 24.1%
  • 20 or more

    Votes: 40 50.6%
  • 5 to 10

    Votes: 3 3.8%

  • Total voters
    79

bat soup

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The exception is if you are a student well into your 30s. This is what helped me. You are basically around college aged women for over a decade. So I did not have to drop my standards too much. Plus I was in my late 20s living in college student housing in a very liberal city.

But you are right. Outside of college campuses you have to drop your standards ALOT.
Being surrounded by prime quality material certainly helps.

I knew a guy in Costa Rica that had 5 girlfriends. I met 3 of them. One was hot, the other 2 were not my cup of tea at all. Personally I'd have just taken the hot one.

Another factor is LTRs can take you out of the game for years. If you never have a long term relationship then you'll have a high lay count but that could be a sign of some kind of problem rather than skill. Case in point: Rooshv.
 

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Being surrounded by prime quality material certainly helps.

I knew a guy in Costa Rica that had 5 girlfriends. I met 3 of them. One was hot, the other 2 were not my cup of tea at all. Personally I'd have just taken the hot one.

Another factor is LTRs can take you out of the game for years. If you never have a long term relationship then you'll have a high lay count but that could be a sign of some kind of problem rather than skill. Case in point: Rooshv.
Yes this is why im skeptical of guys with super high lay counts. Im like " so you were never in a long term relationship bro" . Unless you cheat like crazy LTRs take you way out of the game.
 

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Does the ones count that you fked while you were so drunk that you cannot remember it? ;) :whistle:



lol
 

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Lol oh you in Turkey. Got it
You got it. Here the pandemic is over in terms of it's effect on society. There were some really harsh lockdowns and the was a lot of a fear at the beginning but people seem to be over it and socializing as normal again.
 

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I'm at 43 or 44 because I actually made a list one day. At one point in my life I used them as validation because I had nothing else.

I can't get laid to save my life now a days ( last gf was 8 months ago). My sex drive isnt even that high anymore so I rather just pursue my hobbies.

I dont have high smv anymore so the amount of effort it would take to even smash a 6/10 in the DC area is too much for me.

So that number is not going up much for the foreseeable future and im ok with that. The game has gotten hypercompetitive in the last couple years. Its crazy. You are better off pursuing hobbies. The golden era of high lay counts is over fellas.

I feel bad for the younger dudes. Social media killed it and OnlyFans killed it again, then COVID really killed it.
DC area is one of the hardest in my experience.. you would do better in a different place trust me.

Are you looking for an LTR?
 

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DC area is one of the hardest in my experience.. you would do better in a different place trust me.

Are you looking for an LTR?
Oh yeh I agree. When I lived out of state I received much more success with women ( DC is tough). The Western part of the USA was much better for me. I am currently trying to move out of the upper east coast.
 

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The ideal lay count is one that gives you enough perspective. Most women are not that great at sex, but you don't know that until you have had a few. After enough time, you can learn to appreciate the few girls out there who actually are good in bed.
 

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I'd be somewhere a bit over a thousand. I stopped counting at 700.
 

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Seriously?
Yeah, it's a fact of life with any escortcels. This is what their ads say and it's not just any "Karen-escort", but also includes escorts of other races including black escorts too (although not as frequent). It's like at half of the ads are like that. Filipina escorts is more like 90% making them the most racist of escorts.

When I saw a black poster say they have 200-300 counts then it has to be legit. I wouldn't even think there are hookers involved to even make a remark on that.
 
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