"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How many women have you had sex with?

How many women have you had sex with?

  • 5 or less

    Votes: 18 22.0%
  • 10 to 20

    Votes: 19 23.2%
  • 20 or more

    Votes: 42 51.2%
  • 5 to 10

    Votes: 3 3.7%

  • Total voters
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jimwho

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The thing is, this has become so common place that even if it's not mentioned, the ad is still suspect, since the escorts can always screen people, especially if the escort is asking for your age and ethnicity/race. These days, unless it says "all races and nationalities are welcome" or "blacks welcomed", then you cant be sure.
Why do prostitutes/escort businesses say "no blacks" ??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why do prostitutes/escort businesses say "no blacks" ??
Again its systemic racism. Everybody down on blacks for any bs reason where a white person would either get a pass or personally banned but not their whole race. Maybe its to keep racist police from targetting their operation.

Some ads say "black c0cks matter" a spin of BLM, and you might get the odd escort who only exclusively sees blacks and browns, or gives them a discount. Again these type of ads are once in a blue moon.
 

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Most after 23, so about 10 years. Most were pump and dumps.
Did you have any long lays where you banged 100 or more times?

Did the pump and dumps teach you anything you would not have known with out them?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Provide a quote where I said I was either hanging out with prostitutes or paying for sex.

Why do you think I would do that if I feel prostitute have demons who want to attack me and everyone else seems to get that this is a barrier to escortcelling?
I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.


Did you have any long lays where you banged 100 or more times?

Did the pump and dumps teach you anything you would not have known with out them?

Not for nothing, but most of these dudes, who've not posted pics of themselves stating they layed 20, 50, 100, 200 + females is bullsh!t. Just saying. I, and you, have both posted pics of ourselves. I cannot speak for you, but I've not layed 100+ females. I cut my ONS out after getting an STD once, so I curtailed my laying quite a bit since then.
 

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I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.
Either way, even as a generalization, it deflects from the issue. But I digress, almost no blacks on this board seem to have any issues with women and even @cola went with an Asian massage parlour, which means he has no problem accessing services he wants. I guess it's just @AttackFormation and myself.
 

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I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.





Not for nothing, but most of these dudes, who've not posted pics of themselves stating they layed 20, 50, 100, 200 + females is bullsh!t. Just saying. I, and you, have both posted pics of ourselves. I cannot speak for you, but I've not layed 100+ females. I cut my ONS out after getting an STD once, so I curtailed my laying quite a bit since then.
I know if i lived a certain way, I could eventually get several new lays per week, but it would require a time investment, obviously a successful system, a lifestyle that's a great "bait" in itself, and it would be like a part time job. I do have satisfaction having gf's or positive contacts that i sleep with like i've done up until now, but perhaps going a few years and adding 100+ might not be so bad and we might learn something.
 

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I had a few relationships in that time, but I was never faithful. The dynamic would just be her trying to tie me down, and me doing whatever I wanted.

The vast majority, I'd say 90%, of my lays were one night stands. This was because I didn't want women getting attached to me because it weighed me down. I wanted to be free all the time. I discovered if I bang a woman once and ghost then it's usually a lot easier to get rid of her rather than if I bang her multiple times and ghost. If you bang her once and ghost, she's going to assume that you didn't like the sex. She can rationalize it. But if you bang her multiple times then you lose that Exit Strategy and she will feel much more entitled to your "commitment'.

It's kinda funny. My concerns were never around getting laid. I was only ever concerned about how I was going to get rid of her cleanly after I'd used her.

Pump and Dump - I learned that the more you get, the more you want. Greed is endless.

End Game for me now is being aware of sex addiction, and not letting it rule my life anymore.
Having sex at a reasonable rate is not an "addiction" and I know the powers that be and feminist included would wish 99% of men were sex deprived eunichs, and for them to desire a situation with sex a couple times a week would consider them a "sex addict" or "abusive to women".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I’m in my mid-twenties so the count is still 10-20. I also still believe in love (though I know most people on this forum don’t and would call me naïve) so I usually get to know the girl a bit first which I think is also uncommon on this forum. Usually I don’t bang on the first date (unless she’s smoking hot) and I don’t do male escorts which I suspect a lot of the people with 500+ counts have. However, I’m not a child and will bang if she asks me to, but I will wait a bit if she does not initiate it.
I don't really believe in love and I still like to get to know the person.
 

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I don't really believe in love and I still like to get to know the person.
I was saying that since I believe in love, I like to get to know the person first. I didn’t say that if you don’t believe in it then you don’t like getting to know them. Just that it’s more common with people like me.
 

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I was saying that since I believe in love, I like to get to know the person first. I didn’t say that if you don’t believe in it then you don’t like getting to know them. Just that it’s more common with people like me.
Oh, I know
 
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