SargeMaximus
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Oh damn
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How many women have you had sex with?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
2Rocky
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oh posh...I've snagged more hide with a bald head than with a full head of hair.
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I should add I’m 50 in a few weeks.
married for 25 years
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Have you banged others while married?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Why not?
RickTheToad
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Prostitutes don't count.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Not counting hookers bud...
Glassguy
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Sorry "bud".....I would never fvck a hooker. These are all chicks that I have dated, hooked up with or spun as plates. Its not terribly hard if you have a decent SMV and are not scared to approach as a single guy in today's dating world.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
out of interest, what has been the most lucrative way to meet women for you? online, day time, nightclubs etc?
Reyaj
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That's a very high number count.. how old are you BUD?
Pierce Manhammer
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Somewhere ~200 when I stopped tracking it a few years ago, I was obsessed enough to keep a spreadsheet to track. At the time I guess I needed it to validate myself, now it seems silly as frak. Quality vs Quantity. Had to see it to believe it I guess. I'm in my 50's.
I’m worth quite a lot. $&&. Divorce is very expensive. Not worth it
lost_blackbird
Master Don Juan
7 total. I’m 48
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I think around 40.
I kind of stopped counting once I was in double figures and I realised fast that a high lay count really didn't mean anything lol. It's just a byproduct of how good looking you are and how often you approach girls (and the standard of girls you go for of course). When I was a virgin I remember being so jealous when I heard of people claim to have slept with hundreds of girls and stuff, but after literally 9 lays or so, that completely disappeared.
I kind of stopped counting once I was in double figures and I realised fast that a high lay count really didn't mean anything lol. It's just a byproduct of how good looking you are and how often you approach girls (and the standard of girls you go for of course). When I was a virgin I remember being so jealous when I heard of people claim to have slept with hundreds of girls and stuff, but after literally 9 lays or so, that completely disappeared.
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TheCharmingGuy
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I’m in my mid-twenties so the count is still 10-20. I also still believe in love (though I know most people on this forum don’t and would call me naïve) so I usually get to know the girl a bit first which I think is also uncommon on this forum. Usually I don’t bang on the first date (unless she’s smoking hot) and I don’t do male escorts which I suspect a lot of the people with 500+ counts have. However, I’m not a child and will bang if she asks me to, but I will wait a bit if she does not initiate it.
Reyaj
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Just be careful and cover your tracks.
You sound like you speak from experience. Care to speak of how it went down?
I’m not at that point I suppose
Glassguy
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44. I was married for 8 years in my late 20s- early 30s. Had slept with probably 60+ women before I was married. Its not hard bug guy. 10 chicks a year when you're spinning plates is child's play.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.