Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Curious to see what results are.
This is all anonymous so hoping it yields realistic results.
This is all anonymous so hoping it yields realistic results.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How many women have you had sex with?
- Thread starter Reyaj
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Serenity
Moderator
Just going to point out that there's no option between 5 and 10.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Yeah I realized that after.. can I add it? If not round up I guess
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
Master Don Juan
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My body count isn't insanely high, definitely not over 30, I tend to see the same women over and over, been seeing the 2 since highschool and I loathe condoms
Pierce Manhammer
Moderator
add a category for 50-100 and 100-200...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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Either between 10-20 or more than 20 I’m not sure
Serenity
Moderator
Got back to this a little late. I don't think you can edit the poll, but I added the option for you now.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I ****ed 3 women several thousand times each, and the other 51 between 1 and 20 times.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not really a "wow", guys that ****ed 500 babes 1-3 times each have a stronger experience in how to "get the lay". I don't agree their d1ck game is going to necessarily be better, because they are simply going to do what they feel like doing.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Black Widow Void
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I'm older and so of course my numbers will be a bit higher.
Unfortunately, I also have a ".5" in the mix. I was so drunk that there was 'difficulty' and I can't remember if I actually at least... penetrated (she was a one nighter.)
I hope to run into her again. It wasn't that she was hot or anything, but having a "half" or a ".5" on my total..... kind of bothers me.
Unfortunately, I also have a ".5" in the mix. I was so drunk that there was 'difficulty' and I can't remember if I actually at least... penetrated (she was a one nighter.)
I hope to run into her again. It wasn't that she was hot or anything, but having a "half" or a ".5" on my total..... kind of bothers me.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I should have put a disclaimer not to count hookers in the number.
Mike32ct
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Started very late at age 28. Then went from zero to a total count of about 14. Then the well dried up when I norwooded.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Reyaj
Master Don Juan
I started late too but it was early 20s. I could have done it at 18 or so had I not had religious garbage in my head. It's funny cause my number changes every time I count, I always seem to be forgetting someone lol
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
18, but that number could easily be 2x if I actually gave a ****. I don't even like porn anymore.
EyeBRollin
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100-200
SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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- 1,943
- Age
- 38
What is norwooded?
Mike32ct
Master Don Juan
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Balding (hair loss)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.