"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How many women have you had sex with?

How many women have you had sex with?

  • 5 or less

    Votes: 18 22.0%
  • 10 to 20

    Votes: 19 23.2%
  • 20 or more

    Votes: 42 51.2%
  • 5 to 10

    Votes: 3 3.7%

  • Total voters
    82

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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My body count isn't insanely high, definitely not over 30, I tend to see the same women over and over, been seeing the 2 since highschool and I loathe condoms
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SargeMaximus

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Either between 10-20 or more than 20 I’m not sure
 

Zimbabwe

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I'm at 9 which is probably lower than most here but still I'd say I'm pretty proud of it. I still think i need more experience before i decide to settle down
 

mrgoodstuff

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I ****ed 3 women several thousand times each, and the other 51 between 1 and 20 times.
Not really a "wow", guys that ****ed 500 babes 1-3 times each have a stronger experience in how to "get the lay". I don't agree their d1ck game is going to necessarily be better, because they are simply going to do what they feel like doing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Black Widow Void

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I'm older and so of course my numbers will be a bit higher.
Unfortunately, I also have a ".5" in the mix. I was so drunk that there was 'difficulty' and I can't remember if I actually at least... penetrated (she was a one nighter.)

I hope to run into her again. It wasn't that she was hot or anything, but having a "half" or a ".5" on my total..... kind of bothers me.
 

Snag87

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34 in a week. Just counted all the gals and came up with 21.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reyaj

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Started very late at age 28. Then went from zero to a total count of about 14. Then the well dried up when I norwooded.
I started late too but it was early 20s. I could have done it at 18 or so had I not had religious garbage in my head. It's funny cause my number changes every time I count, I always seem to be forgetting someone lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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