"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How many times/month do you hook up with a girl you like?

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Tantric

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If you have an interest in a chick, what is the "normal" amount of time you let pass before seeing again/maikng plans, etc.?

To be honest, I never really "date"...all my relationships have been fvck buddies and such, so there was really no "dating" involved...just casual hook-ups every couple of weeks or so.

The past 2 weeks, I saw a girl I like 3 times...I was totally cool with it, but it almost seemed odd...like we were spending time together too often...

Does that make sense? or is there a general rule here?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Also would like to know the same question, because situations have recently risen that are fairly similar to this. Wow that sounded weird o_O
 
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Eh, it really depends on how much time you are willing to devote to ONE NEW girl...

Do you really have enough time to see a new girl twice in a week? Then go for it. What's stopping you?

It also depends on how much time you spent on a date. Are you spending three-five hour dates two or three times a week? That is very excessive and either you'll get LBJF'd or she's really desperate for a man. Both are bad situations (unless you want to think of them as a win situations).

Bottom line, there is not specific amount. I gave you some rough guidelines but the way to measure if you are spending "too much" time is the moment you think you're spending too much time together, then you probably are.

Remember, sexual tension requires space and time apart from each other.
 
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