"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How many times/month do you hook up with a girl you like?

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If you have an interest in a chick, what is the "normal" amount of time you let pass before seeing again/maikng plans, etc.?

To be honest, I never really "date"...all my relationships have been fvck buddies and such, so there was really no "dating" involved...just casual hook-ups every couple of weeks or so.

The past 2 weeks, I saw a girl I like 3 times...I was totally cool with it, but it almost seemed odd...like we were spending time together too often...

Does that make sense? or is there a general rule here?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Also would like to know the same question, because situations have recently risen that are fairly similar to this. Wow that sounded weird o_O
 
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Eh, it really depends on how much time you are willing to devote to ONE NEW girl...

Do you really have enough time to see a new girl twice in a week? Then go for it. What's stopping you?

It also depends on how much time you spent on a date. Are you spending three-five hour dates two or three times a week? That is very excessive and either you'll get LBJF'd or she's really desperate for a man. Both are bad situations (unless you want to think of them as a win situations).

Bottom line, there is not specific amount. I gave you some rough guidelines but the way to measure if you are spending "too much" time is the moment you think you're spending too much time together, then you probably are.

Remember, sexual tension requires space and time apart from each other.
 
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