"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How many times/month do you hook up with a girl you like?

Tantric

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If you have an interest in a chick, what is the "normal" amount of time you let pass before seeing again/maikng plans, etc.?

To be honest, I never really "date"...all my relationships have been fvck buddies and such, so there was really no "dating" involved...just casual hook-ups every couple of weeks or so.

The past 2 weeks, I saw a girl I like 3 times...I was totally cool with it, but it almost seemed odd...like we were spending time together too often...

Does that make sense? or is there a general rule here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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faiNt`

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Also would like to know the same question, because situations have recently risen that are fairly similar to this. Wow that sounded weird o_O
 

The Bat

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Eh, it really depends on how much time you are willing to devote to ONE NEW girl...

Do you really have enough time to see a new girl twice in a week? Then go for it. What's stopping you?

It also depends on how much time you spent on a date. Are you spending three-five hour dates two or three times a week? That is very excessive and either you'll get LBJF'd or she's really desperate for a man. Both are bad situations (unless you want to think of them as a win situations).

Bottom line, there is not specific amount. I gave you some rough guidelines but the way to measure if you are spending "too much" time is the moment you think you're spending too much time together, then you probably are.

Remember, sexual tension requires space and time apart from each other.
 
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