I'm just curious as to how often you try with girls before giving up. I know there are IODs and what not, but I've gotten IODs from girls in the past and ended up hooking up with them later on so I don't always trust IODs. I've also heard of guys messaging a girl hundreds of time without getting a response and they end up hooking up with them later on. So is persistence key?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How many times do you try before you give up?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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i would say no, persistance is not the key. i think some patience and waiting to call or waiting for the other to call is the key. i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
Maybe some girls are like that, but I know a girl that got over 100 texts in a day from a guy, I sent the same girl one text that day, guess which guy she hooked up with? The other guy.HolyTrinity said:i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
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i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
Another guy I know messaged a girl over 100 times on Facebook without a response back from her, they eventually hooked up.HolyTrinity said:i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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haha well...if u rly think that'll get u some poon then go for it...
why not send face book messages to 100 girls instead of sending 100 to the same one? maybe u'll get laid by 5 girls out of the 100 it beats just havin it w/ 1 girl anyway.
why not send face book messages to 100 girls instead of sending 100 to the same one? maybe u'll get laid by 5 girls out of the 100 it beats just havin it w/ 1 girl anyway.