I'm just curious as to how often you try with girls before giving up. I know there are IODs and what not, but I've gotten IODs from girls in the past and ended up hooking up with them later on so I don't always trust IODs. I've also heard of guys messaging a girl hundreds of time without getting a response and they end up hooking up with them later on. So is persistence key?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How many times do you try before you give up?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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i would say no, persistance is not the key. i think some patience and waiting to call or waiting for the other to call is the key. i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
Maybe some girls are like that, but I know a girl that got over 100 texts in a day from a guy, I sent the same girl one text that day, guess which guy she hooked up with? The other guy.HolyTrinity said:i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
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i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
Another guy I know messaged a girl over 100 times on Facebook without a response back from her, they eventually hooked up.HolyTrinity said:i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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haha well...if u rly think that'll get u some poon then go for it...
why not send face book messages to 100 girls instead of sending 100 to the same one? maybe u'll get laid by 5 girls out of the 100 it beats just havin it w/ 1 girl anyway.
why not send face book messages to 100 girls instead of sending 100 to the same one? maybe u'll get laid by 5 girls out of the 100 it beats just havin it w/ 1 girl anyway.