I'm just curious as to how often you try with girls before giving up. I know there are IODs and what not, but I've gotten IODs from girls in the past and ended up hooking up with them later on so I don't always trust IODs. I've also heard of guys messaging a girl hundreds of time without getting a response and they end up hooking up with them later on. So is persistence key?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How many times do you try before you give up?
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i would say no, persistance is not the key. i think some patience and waiting to call or waiting for the other to call is the key. i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
Maybe some girls are like that, but I know a girl that got over 100 texts in a day from a guy, I sent the same girl one text that day, guess which guy she hooked up with? The other guy.HolyTrinity said:i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
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i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
Another guy I know messaged a girl over 100 times on Facebook without a response back from her, they eventually hooked up.HolyTrinity said:i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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haha well...if u rly think that'll get u some poon then go for it...
why not send face book messages to 100 girls instead of sending 100 to the same one? maybe u'll get laid by 5 girls out of the 100 it beats just havin it w/ 1 girl anyway.
why not send face book messages to 100 girls instead of sending 100 to the same one? maybe u'll get laid by 5 girls out of the 100 it beats just havin it w/ 1 girl anyway.