"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How many times do you try before you give up?

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I'm just curious as to how often you try with girls before giving up. I know there are IODs and what not, but I've gotten IODs from girls in the past and ended up hooking up with them later on so I don't always trust IODs. I've also heard of guys messaging a girl hundreds of time without getting a response and they end up hooking up with them later on. So is persistence key?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i would say no, persistance is not the key. i think some patience and waiting to call or waiting for the other to call is the key. i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
 
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HolyTrinity said:
i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
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Maybe some girls are like that, but I know a girl that got over 100 texts in a day from a guy, I sent the same girl one text that day, guess which guy she hooked up with? The other guy.
 
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i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
 
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i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
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Another guy I know messaged a girl over 100 times on Facebook without a response back from her, they eventually hooked up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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haha well...if u rly think that'll get u some poon then go for it...

why not send face book messages to 100 girls instead of sending 100 to the same one? maybe u'll get laid by 5 girls out of the 100 it beats just havin it w/ 1 girl anyway.
 
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