"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many times do you try before you give up?

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I'm just curious as to how often you try with girls before giving up. I know there are IODs and what not, but I've gotten IODs from girls in the past and ended up hooking up with them later on so I don't always trust IODs. I've also heard of guys messaging a girl hundreds of time without getting a response and they end up hooking up with them later on. So is persistence key?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i would say no, persistance is not the key. i think some patience and waiting to call or waiting for the other to call is the key. i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
 
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HolyTrinity said:
i would say leaving tons of messages is a deffinate no no :nono: girls would def choose a guy who is confident and seems like the guy has other stuff to do in their lives other than desperately text msg her all day.
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Maybe some girls are like that, but I know a girl that got over 100 texts in a day from a guy, I sent the same girl one text that day, guess which guy she hooked up with? The other guy.
 
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i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
 
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i doubt that texting was the bigget factor in who she chose. more likely she was already more attracted to the OP in the first place
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Another guy I know messaged a girl over 100 times on Facebook without a response back from her, they eventually hooked up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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haha well...if u rly think that'll get u some poon then go for it...

why not send face book messages to 100 girls instead of sending 100 to the same one? maybe u'll get laid by 5 girls out of the 100 it beats just havin it w/ 1 girl anyway.
 
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