"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"How many other girls have you said that too"
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mantis Toboggan
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My second response would be "Figure it out on your own."
You ask the most weirdly-specific questions. Your last thread was, "If a girl asks to meet me halfway, should I do it?"
Holy s**t, bro. The smart way to use this site is for general questions...how to handle a flake...how to get past Last Minute Resistance....etc. There's no textbook answer on how to respond to "How many other girls have you said that to". Just figure it out.
What's your next thread going to be? "If a girl owns a rabbit, but I'm allergic to rabbits, should I invite her over for dinner?"
Crissco
Master Don Juan
I was going to respond by telling you off, then I realized your not worth my time. I ask my questions for specific reasons. Ive been called out a couple of timed. Simple, looking to see how others respond to a call outMantis Toboggan said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Nutz
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Like any other **** test, choose one of the following:Crissco said:
- Ignore it
- Change the subject
- Agree and amplify to absurdity
I've also found a fourth way to respond that turns everything on its head:
HB: How many other girls have you said that to?
PUA: What about guys that say "xyz" turns you on?