Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
overall...not really a good idea. Put yourself in his shoes, I felt pretty guilty about it too and wouldn't go there again. Love triangles are lame.pyros said:Just wondering how you handle this type of situation where you bang regularly a girl that has a bf.
How did you start it...? first dates etc? she approached me in a parking lot and complimented my truck
how did you manage to bang her? Hung out a few times at her place, one thing lead to another...I'm all up in there with no resistance on her part. Almost too easy.
How long did it last? About a month until the guilt became too much for her. He was a good guy I guess, but long distance
Tips? If she's gonna cheat, she's gonna cheat. Don't be pushy
dos? Don't ask about the guy. If she brings him up, deflect.
donts?I'd steer clear if he's local. If he's military and away just dont do it...its unpatriotic and very low
I love the stories where the guy who is banging her "wins her" and she does the same thing to him. It's pretty common.Infern0 said:I've done it twice in the past and both times karma bit me on the ass
It was back in my AFC days so I quickly went from just enjoying the sex to thinking I could have relationships with these girls with predictable results. They did end up leaving their boyfriends but not to be with me...
These days I don't bother with devious girls and why screw a brother over, sure they will cheat with someone but I don't want to be a part of it.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bigneil is usually the BF or the SugarDaddy. And when you are SugarDaddy, they will have BF's in their peer circle.bigneil said:Yes. After 3 months I sat her on my lap at my laptop and browsed Google. I first found her Twitter comments where she said "I love Mark". I then went to her FB and searched her friends for Mark. Of the 3 one was "In a relationship" with (her), his profile photo showing them kissing. The look on her face was priceless. She tried to pan it off as my being a computer expert. Sorry.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Word.old_skoolr said:I think this song perfectly explains my opinion on the subject matter.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFTBG1sae0M