"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how many of you have been banging girl with bf?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Infern0
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It was back in my AFC days so I quickly went from just enjoying the sex to thinking I could have relationships with these girls with predictable results. They did end up leaving their boyfriends but not to be with me...
These days I don't bother with devious girls and why screw a brother over, sure they will cheat with someone but I don't want to be a part of it.
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I love the stories where the guy who is banging her "wins her" and she does the same thing to him. It's pretty common.Infern0 said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Bigneil is usually the BF or the SugarDaddy. And when you are SugarDaddy, they will have BF's in their peer circle.bigneil said:
old_skoolr
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFTBG1sae0M
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Word.old_skoolr said:
Dont believe in love or labels. Attraction is everything.
If we have some ethical bros, that cool... but dont deny this rule or you will be ****ed. You always know when a girl wants the ****, ignore at your own peril.