"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How many of you guys want to please women, period?

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cod3r

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I take an interest in pleasing a woman who deserves to be pleased...

My current gf, I take ultimate pleasure in taking an hour or so to massage her after she gets out the shower, I also eat her when she asks and it brightens me up when I surprise her with something and I see her face glow. It's equal and actually pretty biased in my favor, but I take pleasure in pleasing her

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You're not going to get an honest answer on this board, these guys are breed to be 'tough'. I'm sure in your life you've met plenty of men ready to cut their ball sacks off for the chance to take you to the movies and out to dinner... ON HIM ....



-Cod3r
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2cirius

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This is a loaded question. It depends on where or how you please them. Personally, I don't care about pleasing a woman on a date or whatever, but I LOVE pleasing them in bed. Whether it be with my tongue, my hands or my stiff long one, it drives me crazy when she's crazy. :yes:
 

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2cirius said:
but I LOVE pleasing them in bed. Whether it be with my tongue, my hands or my stiff long one, it drives me crazy when she's crazy. :yes:
This is what I meant.
 

Freddy1

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Only if she deserves to be please.
One good pat on the back derserves another.
 

Snow Plowman

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Before it was about just getting off, but after having sex for awhile and enjoying the female body. I focus way more on pleasing the women. The more I please them the more they want to please me and the better I feel. I would recommend everyone to worry about pleasing the girl first.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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kukulkana said:
This is what I meant.
Oh, that's what you meant.

As a believer in Kantian ethics I do believe that how you treat another is how you treat yourself.

To please my women is to please myself. Why? Read up on Kant :D

Gratify her sexually and you shall be sexually gratified.
 

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Brak86 said:
pleasing a girl turns me on so much...It also makes you feel good if you know you're making a woman writhe and scream in bed :rockon:
+1 :up:
 

DarkLight

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I love to pleasure the women I'm with.
I don't even see it as pleasing them, as its a pleasure for me to do.

And to rock a woman's world sexually, will put you into a whole other dynamic of relating. You will for lack of a better word... own her. She'll want to please you, take care of you, etc... as you've now become her source of ecstasy.

Peace'
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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