"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How many of you guys want to please women, period?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cod3r

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I take an interest in pleasing a woman who deserves to be pleased...

My current gf, I take ultimate pleasure in taking an hour or so to massage her after she gets out the shower, I also eat her when she asks and it brightens me up when I surprise her with something and I see her face glow. It's equal and actually pretty biased in my favor, but I take pleasure in pleasing her

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You're not going to get an honest answer on this board, these guys are breed to be 'tough'. I'm sure in your life you've met plenty of men ready to cut their ball sacks off for the chance to take you to the movies and out to dinner... ON HIM ....



-Cod3r
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is a loaded question. It depends on where or how you please them. Personally, I don't care about pleasing a woman on a date or whatever, but I LOVE pleasing them in bed. Whether it be with my tongue, my hands or my stiff long one, it drives me crazy when she's crazy. :yes:
 

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2cirius said:
but I LOVE pleasing them in bed. Whether it be with my tongue, my hands or my stiff long one, it drives me crazy when she's crazy. :yes:
This is what I meant.
 

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Only if she deserves to be please.
One good pat on the back derserves another.
 

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Before it was about just getting off, but after having sex for awhile and enjoying the female body. I focus way more on pleasing the women. The more I please them the more they want to please me and the better I feel. I would recommend everyone to worry about pleasing the girl first.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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kukulkana said:
This is what I meant.
Oh, that's what you meant.

As a believer in Kantian ethics I do believe that how you treat another is how you treat yourself.

To please my women is to please myself. Why? Read up on Kant :D

Gratify her sexually and you shall be sexually gratified.
 

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Brak86 said:
pleasing a girl turns me on so much...It also makes you feel good if you know you're making a woman writhe and scream in bed :rockon:
+1 :up:
 

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I love to pleasure the women I'm with.
I don't even see it as pleasing them, as its a pleasure for me to do.

And to rock a woman's world sexually, will put you into a whole other dynamic of relating. You will for lack of a better word... own her. She'll want to please you, take care of you, etc... as you've now become her source of ecstasy.

Peace'
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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