"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many of you guys want to please women, period?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cod3r

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I take an interest in pleasing a woman who deserves to be pleased...

My current gf, I take ultimate pleasure in taking an hour or so to massage her after she gets out the shower, I also eat her when she asks and it brightens me up when I surprise her with something and I see her face glow. It's equal and actually pretty biased in my favor, but I take pleasure in pleasing her

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You're not going to get an honest answer on this board, these guys are breed to be 'tough'. I'm sure in your life you've met plenty of men ready to cut their ball sacks off for the chance to take you to the movies and out to dinner... ON HIM ....



-Cod3r
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This is a loaded question. It depends on where or how you please them. Personally, I don't care about pleasing a woman on a date or whatever, but I LOVE pleasing them in bed. Whether it be with my tongue, my hands or my stiff long one, it drives me crazy when she's crazy. :yes:
 

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2cirius said:
but I LOVE pleasing them in bed. Whether it be with my tongue, my hands or my stiff long one, it drives me crazy when she's crazy. :yes:
This is what I meant.
 

Freddy1

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Only if she deserves to be please.
One good pat on the back derserves another.
 

Snow Plowman

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Before it was about just getting off, but after having sex for awhile and enjoying the female body. I focus way more on pleasing the women. The more I please them the more they want to please me and the better I feel. I would recommend everyone to worry about pleasing the girl first.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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kukulkana said:
This is what I meant.
Oh, that's what you meant.

As a believer in Kantian ethics I do believe that how you treat another is how you treat yourself.

To please my women is to please myself. Why? Read up on Kant :D

Gratify her sexually and you shall be sexually gratified.
 

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Brak86 said:
pleasing a girl turns me on so much...It also makes you feel good if you know you're making a woman writhe and scream in bed :rockon:
+1 :up:
 

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I love to pleasure the women I'm with.
I don't even see it as pleasing them, as its a pleasure for me to do.

And to rock a woman's world sexually, will put you into a whole other dynamic of relating. You will for lack of a better word... own her. She'll want to please you, take care of you, etc... as you've now become her source of ecstasy.

Peace'
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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