"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many of you guys want to please women, period?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cod3r

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I take an interest in pleasing a woman who deserves to be pleased...

My current gf, I take ultimate pleasure in taking an hour or so to massage her after she gets out the shower, I also eat her when she asks and it brightens me up when I surprise her with something and I see her face glow. It's equal and actually pretty biased in my favor, but I take pleasure in pleasing her

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You're not going to get an honest answer on this board, these guys are breed to be 'tough'. I'm sure in your life you've met plenty of men ready to cut their ball sacks off for the chance to take you to the movies and out to dinner... ON HIM ....



-Cod3r
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is a loaded question. It depends on where or how you please them. Personally, I don't care about pleasing a woman on a date or whatever, but I LOVE pleasing them in bed. Whether it be with my tongue, my hands or my stiff long one, it drives me crazy when she's crazy. :yes:
 

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2cirius said:
but I LOVE pleasing them in bed. Whether it be with my tongue, my hands or my stiff long one, it drives me crazy when she's crazy. :yes:
This is what I meant.
 

Freddy1

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Only if she deserves to be please.
One good pat on the back derserves another.
 

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Before it was about just getting off, but after having sex for awhile and enjoying the female body. I focus way more on pleasing the women. The more I please them the more they want to please me and the better I feel. I would recommend everyone to worry about pleasing the girl first.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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kukulkana said:
This is what I meant.
Oh, that's what you meant.

As a believer in Kantian ethics I do believe that how you treat another is how you treat yourself.

To please my women is to please myself. Why? Read up on Kant :D

Gratify her sexually and you shall be sexually gratified.
 

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Brak86 said:
pleasing a girl turns me on so much...It also makes you feel good if you know you're making a woman writhe and scream in bed :rockon:
+1 :up:
 

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I love to pleasure the women I'm with.
I don't even see it as pleasing them, as its a pleasure for me to do.

And to rock a woman's world sexually, will put you into a whole other dynamic of relating. You will for lack of a better word... own her. She'll want to please you, take care of you, etc... as you've now become her source of ecstasy.

Peace'
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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