spider_007
Master Don Juan
and was it with a g/f or else
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
how many of you got laid last night:D
- Thread starter spider_007
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
I'm gay
Dark Nimbus
Senior Don Juan
None of your choices apply to me.
I broke up with my **** buddy of 2 years yesterday because I felt she was getting too attached. She balled her eyes out and right now I feel like a complete a$$hole. Did I mention it wasn't only valentines day, but technically our 2 year aniversary? Yeah, I'm going straight to hell without passing go....
I broke up with my **** buddy of 2 years yesterday because I felt she was getting too attached. She balled her eyes out and right now I feel like a complete a$$hole. Did I mention it wasn't only valentines day, but technically our 2 year aniversary? Yeah, I'm going straight to hell without passing go....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
How about none of the above?
I DID get a # though from a hot blonde at the bar.
And i'm on my masturbation lent so no right hand for me either.
I DID get a # though from a hot blonde at the bar.
And i'm on my masturbation lent so no right hand for me either.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
no i think this applys to the "i'm gay" catagory
:crackup: (couldn't resist)ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
I gots me some double T&A last night. Women were prowling at the bah for a hookup, so me n some friends had to party...
Gots to say not one of us went home without gettin our wang wet.
Gots to say not one of us went home without gettin our wang wet.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
:woo: :woo: :woo: :woo:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.