"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how many of you got laid last night:D

haw many of you got laid last night

  • Yes with my g/f

    Votes: 7 26.9%
  • No but i have a g/f

    Votes: 2 7.7%
  • Yes, with a random ho (f-buddy)

    Votes: 3 11.5%
  • My Right hand hurts.

    Votes: 12 46.2%
  • I'm gay

    Votes: 2 7.7%

  • Total voters
    26

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dark Nimbus

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None of your choices apply to me.

I broke up with my **** buddy of 2 years yesterday because I felt she was getting too attached. She balled her eyes out and right now I feel like a complete a$$hole. Did I mention it wasn't only valentines day, but technically our 2 year aniversary? Yeah, I'm going straight to hell without passing go....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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T Money

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How about none of the above?

I DID get a # though from a hot blonde at the bar.

And i'm on my masturbation lent so no right hand for me either.
 

ethnomethodologist

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I gots me some double T&A last night. Women were prowling at the bah for a hookup, so me n some friends had to party...

Gots to say not one of us went home without gettin our wang wet.
 

vorbis

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had a date and went back to her place. Bad lmr though. Got struck out while heading for third.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jt4aa

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Had to get up at 5.40am for work so didn't go out. No right hand action either (or left!).

You should have added an extra option...
 
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