spider_007
Master Don Juan
and was it with a g/f or else
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how many of you got laid last night:D
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
I'm gay
Dark Nimbus
Senior Don Juan
None of your choices apply to me.
I broke up with my **** buddy of 2 years yesterday because I felt she was getting too attached. She balled her eyes out and right now I feel like a complete a$$hole. Did I mention it wasn't only valentines day, but technically our 2 year aniversary? Yeah, I'm going straight to hell without passing go....
I broke up with my **** buddy of 2 years yesterday because I felt she was getting too attached. She balled her eyes out and right now I feel like a complete a$$hole. Did I mention it wasn't only valentines day, but technically our 2 year aniversary? Yeah, I'm going straight to hell without passing go....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
How about none of the above?
I DID get a # though from a hot blonde at the bar.
And i'm on my masturbation lent so no right hand for me either.
I DID get a # though from a hot blonde at the bar.
And i'm on my masturbation lent so no right hand for me either.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
no i think this applys to the "i'm gay" catagory
:crackup: (couldn't resist)ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
I gots me some double T&A last night. Women were prowling at the bah for a hookup, so me n some friends had to party...
Gots to say not one of us went home without gettin our wang wet.
Gots to say not one of us went home without gettin our wang wet.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
:woo: :woo: :woo: :woo:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.