"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How Many Of You DJ's Use Condoms With A Plate?

soulforge

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Simple question?

Also how do you go from not using protection with a plate, to then months down the line wanting to wrap up?

How can you do that, without the plate making an issue of it, or her deciding she doesn't want to fuk any longer..

One of my plates, she likes to go out to bars etc sometimes, she is always horny, very high sex drive.. and I don't really trust her much either..

So how do you make the transition from no protection to using protection.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wifehunter

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No, I don't use a condom...but, then again, I don't get laid either. :p
 

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I've never met a girl who made me use a condom more than once. The very first time, yes, but ten minutes later, no. I've never had an STD nor have I ever got a girl pregnant (nor have I ever come inside them unless they begged me to).

This is probably because my penis size is bigger than 99.99% of others, and women lose all control by that point.
 

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I've never met a girl who made me use a condom more than once. The very first time, yes, but ten minutes later, no. I've never had an STD nor have I ever got a girl pregnant (nor have I ever come inside them unless they begged me to).

This is probably because my penis size is bigger than 99.99% of others, and women lose all control by that point.
Me either...I never use a condom and I have never impregnated a woman nor have I ever caught a disease,and I have done some risky azz sh!t..either I am extremely lucky or it's not really that prevalent.
 

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Yeah I caught chlamydia 2 times in my life, but luckily no herpes or anything permanent like that. *knock on wood*
But I always wrap it up with strangers, although condoms don't protect against herpes 100%, you gotta be careful, std's are easily caught.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've ****ed over 100 Backpage prostitutes and am still clean. They are surprisingly careful. With condoms obviously, even for head.
 

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If she isn't your girlfriend use a condom for obvious reasons.. Pre-c*m is a thing, and it can get her pregnant.
There are several "thin" condoms, even though it doesn't feel as good as raw they feel really good.

It just isn't worth the risk.
 

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I've never met a girl who made me use a condom more than once. The very first time, yes, but ten minutes later, no. I've never had an STD nor have I ever got a girl pregnant (nor have I ever come inside them unless they begged me to).

This is probably because my penis size is bigger than 99.99% of others, and women lose all control by that point.
Do you just say **** to try and convince YOURSELF that you're better than you really are? I'm almost convinced you're a basement dwelling neckbeard. You can't go 5 minutes without stroking your ego because no one else will do it.
 
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Do you just say **** to try and convince YOURSELF that you're better than you really are? I'm almost convinced you're a basement dwelling neckbeard. You can't go 5 minutes without stroking your ego because no one else will do it.
LimaBean,

Do you get good results on OLD from posting shirtless pics?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can't cvm in a condom or even stay hard in one; it's impossible. Therefor, I don't use them. That's another reason why I tend to stick with one partner at a time these days. Back in my 30s in my heavy plate spinning days I was doing some real bad stuff and am lucky I didn't catch something. But these days I am either in a STR, LTR, or I go to the same FWB. It's one woman at a time. If she says she can't get preggo I try to get that in a text or FB message. Many of the women I sleep with are very late 30s/early 40s and can't get preggo anymore.
 

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I can't cvm in a condom or even stay hard in one; it's impossible. Therefor, I don't use them. That's another reason why I tend to stick with one partner at a time these days. Back in my 30s in my heavy plate spinning days I was doing some real bad stuff and am lucky I didn't catch something. But these days I am either in a STR, LTR, or I go to the same FWB. It's one woman at a time. If she says she can't get preggo I try to get that in a text or FB message. Many of the women I sleep with are very late 30s/early 40s and can't get preggo anymore.
This may be the reason for my luck too..the past 10 years it's pretty much been LTR's or trusted FWB status chicks,women who I know are pretty much "safe" so I guess I self-screen out all the STD''s
 

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No condoms. Sometimes, I have some trouble gettin' it hard without a condom, let alone a condom LOL.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I can't cvm in a condom or even stay hard in one; it's impossible. Therefor, I don't use them. That's another reason why I tend to stick with one partner at a time these days. Back in my 30s in my heavy plate spinning days I was doing some real bad stuff and am lucky I didn't catch something. But these days I am either in a STR, LTR, or I go to the same FWB. It's one woman at a time. If she says she can't get preggo I try to get that in a text or FB message. Many of the women I sleep with are very late 30s/early 40s and can't get preggo anymore.
Just be careful with those 39-ish women that suddenly want a kid before it's too late.
 

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If she isn't your girlfriend use a condom for obvious reasons.. Pre-c*m is a thing, and it can get her pregnant.
There are several "thin" condoms, even though it doesn't feel as good as raw they feel really good.

It just isn't worth the risk.
I've never met anyone who got pregnant from pre-c*m. I hear its highly unlikely it will happen.

You have to be careful with those thin condoms. Every single one that I have used has broke. The Trojan original in the blue box are my go to.
 

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If getting a STD or getting a girl pregnant doesn't make you want to wear a condom the though of your penis swishing around in some others dudes c-um should...

Unless you're all having sex with virgin nuns.... cover it up.
 

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Yeah I caught chlamydia 2 times in my life, but luckily no herpes or anything permanent like that. *knock on wood*
But I always wrap it up with strangers, although condoms don't protect against herpes 100%, you gotta be careful, std's are easily caught.
Chlymidia felt great huh?
 

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I can't cvm in a condom or even stay hard in one; it's impossible. Therefor, I don't use them.
Likewise. It's raw or it just ain't going in, even if it means taking time to build trust and showing negative test results so we can both go all in. Looking at a hot girl while feeling like I'm ****ing a plastic bag is just not my idea of fun. I'm not interested in just being a human dildo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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