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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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How many nights a week do you guys go out to do pickup?

HardTimes

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I'm not really talking about day-game or random pickup. I'm talking about how many nights a week do you go out to the bars/clubs specifically for pickup?

I just started trying to do real pickup and finally got the confident to start approaching women at the bars/clubs. I even approached a group of 4 women by myself and make it work so I think my approach anxiety is almost gone if not all the way gone. I also discovered that apparently I am good looking or am smooth talker and can dance since once I approach I have had very good success so far.

So now with this new ability I want to start going out way more often than I do. Right now I only go out friday/saturday but I want to start increasing this to maybe 4 days a week. What do you guys think? Is it worth it doing pickup on days other than friday/saturday? If so, what days would be good?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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newbie221

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Depends on what's going on in your neighborhood. If there's a ladies night on Tuesdays or a $1 beer Wednesday in your area, go for those.
 

HardTimes

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I suppose I need to look for special nights like that, good suggestion. So just incase thats not available, what do you guys think of just going certain weekdays? I know theres not going to be much of a crowd but I don't mind as long as I get some good pratice in. Do any of you guys do this?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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