"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How many nights a week do you guys go out to do pickup?

HardTimes

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I'm not really talking about day-game or random pickup. I'm talking about how many nights a week do you go out to the bars/clubs specifically for pickup?

I just started trying to do real pickup and finally got the confident to start approaching women at the bars/clubs. I even approached a group of 4 women by myself and make it work so I think my approach anxiety is almost gone if not all the way gone. I also discovered that apparently I am good looking or am smooth talker and can dance since once I approach I have had very good success so far.

So now with this new ability I want to start going out way more often than I do. Right now I only go out friday/saturday but I want to start increasing this to maybe 4 days a week. What do you guys think? Is it worth it doing pickup on days other than friday/saturday? If so, what days would be good?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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newbie221

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Depends on what's going on in your neighborhood. If there's a ladies night on Tuesdays or a $1 beer Wednesday in your area, go for those.
 

HardTimes

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I suppose I need to look for special nights like that, good suggestion. So just incase thats not available, what do you guys think of just going certain weekdays? I know theres not going to be much of a crowd but I don't mind as long as I get some good pratice in. Do any of you guys do this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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