"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How many nights a week do you guys go out to do pickup?

HardTimes

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I'm not really talking about day-game or random pickup. I'm talking about how many nights a week do you go out to the bars/clubs specifically for pickup?

I just started trying to do real pickup and finally got the confident to start approaching women at the bars/clubs. I even approached a group of 4 women by myself and make it work so I think my approach anxiety is almost gone if not all the way gone. I also discovered that apparently I am good looking or am smooth talker and can dance since once I approach I have had very good success so far.

So now with this new ability I want to start going out way more often than I do. Right now I only go out friday/saturday but I want to start increasing this to maybe 4 days a week. What do you guys think? Is it worth it doing pickup on days other than friday/saturday? If so, what days would be good?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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newbie221

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Depends on what's going on in your neighborhood. If there's a ladies night on Tuesdays or a $1 beer Wednesday in your area, go for those.
 

HardTimes

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I suppose I need to look for special nights like that, good suggestion. So just incase thats not available, what do you guys think of just going certain weekdays? I know theres not going to be much of a crowd but I don't mind as long as I get some good pratice in. Do any of you guys do this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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