"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How many nights a week do you guys go out to do pickup?

HardTimes

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I'm not really talking about day-game or random pickup. I'm talking about how many nights a week do you go out to the bars/clubs specifically for pickup?

I just started trying to do real pickup and finally got the confident to start approaching women at the bars/clubs. I even approached a group of 4 women by myself and make it work so I think my approach anxiety is almost gone if not all the way gone. I also discovered that apparently I am good looking or am smooth talker and can dance since once I approach I have had very good success so far.

So now with this new ability I want to start going out way more often than I do. Right now I only go out friday/saturday but I want to start increasing this to maybe 4 days a week. What do you guys think? Is it worth it doing pickup on days other than friday/saturday? If so, what days would be good?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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newbie221

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Depends on what's going on in your neighborhood. If there's a ladies night on Tuesdays or a $1 beer Wednesday in your area, go for those.
 

HardTimes

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I suppose I need to look for special nights like that, good suggestion. So just incase thats not available, what do you guys think of just going certain weekdays? I know theres not going to be much of a crowd but I don't mind as long as I get some good pratice in. Do any of you guys do this?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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