"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many nights a week do you guys go out to do pickup?

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I'm not really talking about day-game or random pickup. I'm talking about how many nights a week do you go out to the bars/clubs specifically for pickup?

I just started trying to do real pickup and finally got the confident to start approaching women at the bars/clubs. I even approached a group of 4 women by myself and make it work so I think my approach anxiety is almost gone if not all the way gone. I also discovered that apparently I am good looking or am smooth talker and can dance since once I approach I have had very good success so far.

So now with this new ability I want to start going out way more often than I do. Right now I only go out friday/saturday but I want to start increasing this to maybe 4 days a week. What do you guys think? Is it worth it doing pickup on days other than friday/saturday? If so, what days would be good?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Depends on what's going on in your neighborhood. If there's a ladies night on Tuesdays or a $1 beer Wednesday in your area, go for those.
 
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I suppose I need to look for special nights like that, good suggestion. So just incase thats not available, what do you guys think of just going certain weekdays? I know theres not going to be much of a crowd but I don't mind as long as I get some good pratice in. Do any of you guys do this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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