You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Alittude said:Funniest thrread everr.
You've got a little brown stuff on your nose... :moon:lookyoung said:I agree say what you want about guys like don ronny, skip2mylou, Playersupreme, Nasman, these guys were funny as hell. There personality really showed in there posts. These guys had charisma to them. They made this so suave interesting. And believe it or not were probably one of the biggest DJ's this site has ever seen.
All of them are banned now.Imagine how much more insightful and interesting this place would be if you brought back these guys.
Francisco d'Anconia said:You've got a little brown stuff on your nose... :moon:
Puberty still getting the best of 'ya huh?lookyoung said:Your the most worthless character on this site. No joke 97% of your posts are flames. You are the biggest retard on this site. Mr international 10,000 posts. Haven't you learned anything. Your the biggest suckup here, some people speak there minds, you don't. If I feel I am right I will go up against a mod, you wouldn't, you kiss ass.
Get off this site you are absolutely worthless. give us a field report MR. DON JUAN INTERNATIONAL.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Francisco d'Anconia said:Puberty still getting the best of 'ya huh?![]()
Do the forum a favor and promise that to everyone....lookyoung said:I will not respond to anything you have to say...
I agree wholeheartedly - free PR_L from the shackles of banishment hell - Mods, free him now or we''ll start an uprising!!!lookyoung said:I agree, say what you want about PuertoRican_Lover (PR_L) this guy was funny as hell. His personality really showed in his posts. This guy had charisma . He made this so suave interesting. And believe it or not is one of the biggest DJ's this site has ever seen.
He is banned now.Imagine how much more insightful and interesting this place would be if you brought him back
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Don't encourage young impressionable minds.... :nono:Last Man Standing said:I agree wholeheartedly - free PR_L from the shackles of banishment hell - Mods, free him now or we''ll start an uprising!!!
Rex I have read alot of posts on this forum, and you are for sure more qualified than most of these guys by far. Believe me. Your 21 and fransico is 39 and you have 10 times more game than he does.Rex Man said:Hey Francisco,
Remember you told me that thing about it just being a d!ck slinging contest?
Well, let me just unzip these here pants cuz that last girl, (on my game thread), made 32.
Considering my age, I'm beginning to think I'm one of the more qualified posters on this forum. :yes:
C'mon, admit it. You love me. :yes: There ya go...
A d!ck slinging contest? You mean like when some one brags about how much ass they get? No it wouldnt be that, unless you helped contribute, but you're more mature than that right?Rex Man said:Hey Francisco,
Remember you told me that thing about it just being a d!ck slinging contest?
Oops.Well, let me just unzip these here pants cuz that last girl, (on my game thread), made 32.
You do know that what you're doing (in this forum at least) is very AFC. You just made a qualifying statement. You say you are qualified. Well I know bunches of guys who get lots of poon, and their advice sucks. Just because you "get it" doesn't mean you can convey it to others.Considering my age, I'm beginning to think I'm one of the more qualified posters on this forum. :yes:
C'mon, admit it. You love me. :yes: There ya go...
Lookyoung... you sound like a brown noser.lookyoung said:Rex I have read alot of posts on this forum, and you are for sure more qualified than most of these guys by far. Believe me. Your 21 and fransico is 39 and you have 10 times more game than he does.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
No, I am just stating the obvious. By the way sorry for ruining this thread. By the way my numbers are in the mid twenties. Have had many girls that have given me just Bj's, and Hj's.Fortunate_Juan said:A d!ck slinging contest? You mean like when some one brags about how much ass they get? No it wouldnt be that, unless you helped contribute, but you're more mature than that right?
Hey listen your replying to a how many girls have you done thread. Saying what your saying is not contributing to this thread.
Oops.
You do know that what you're doing (in this forum at least) is very AFC. You just made a qualifying statement. You say you are qualified. Well I know bunches of guys who get lots of poon, and their advice sucks. Just because you "get it" doesn't mean you can convey it to others.
This is sooooo true. Good job juan. Its called REAL LIFE
Lookyoung... you sound like a brown noser.
Hey nosey, I don't even tell the girls I date. What makes you think I am going to tell some i-net tard?lookyoung said:No, I am just stating the obvious. By the way sorry for ruining this thread. By the way my numbers are in the mid twenties. Have had many girls that have given me just Bj's, and Hj's.
Wait juan how many girls have you DONE?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.