"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How many girls have u done?
- Thread starter Nasman
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Alittude said:
I agree say what you want about guys like don ronny, skip2mylou, Playersupreme, Nasman, these guys were funny as hell. There personality really showed in there posts. These guys had charisma to them. They made this so suave interesting. And believe it or not were probably one of the biggest DJ's this site has ever seen.
All of them are banned now.
Imagine how much more insightful and interesting this place would be if you brought back these guys.Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You've got a little brown stuff on your nose... :moon:lookyoung said:I agree say what you want about guys like don ronny, skip2mylou, Playersupreme, Nasman, these guys were funny as hell. There personality really showed in there posts. These guys had charisma to them. They made this so suave interesting. And believe it or not were probably one of the biggest DJ's this site has ever seen.
All of them are banned now.
Francisco d'Anconia said:
Your the most worthless character on this site. No joke 97% of your posts are flames. You are the biggest retard on this site. Mr international 10,000 posts. Haven't you learned anything. Your the biggest suckup here, some people speak there minds, you don't. If I feel I am right I will go up against a mod, you wouldn't, you kiss ass.
Get off this site you are absolutely worthless. give us a field report MR. DON JUAN INTERNATIONAL.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Puberty still getting the best of 'ya huh?lookyoung said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia said:Puberty still getting the best of 'ya huh?
You sound like the biggest nerd. This is it I am done with you loser. I will not keep this flame going you dork. I am 3 levels above you. I will not respond to anything you have to say, unless it has something to do with seducing girls. Which you never post anyway. I wonder why????
Take care and have a nice life.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Do the forum a favor and promise that to everyone....lookyoung said:
T Money
Senior Don Juan
If I were like you TC, and had banged 21 girls I probably wouldn't remember the exact number.
I'm in good shape, 7 girls in 22 years. I know a 28 year old virgin so i'm coo.
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I agree wholeheartedly - free PR_L from the shackles of banishment hell - Mods, free him now or we''ll start an uprising!!!lookyoung said:I agree, say what you want about PuertoRican_Lover (PR_L) this guy was funny as hell. His personality really showed in his posts. This guy had charisma . He made this so suave interesting. And believe it or not is one of the biggest DJ's this site has ever seen.
He is banned now.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Don't encourage young impressionable minds.... :nono:Last Man Standing said:
(Mosher WD, Chandra A, Jones J. Sexual behavior and selected health measures: Men and women 15–44 years of age, United States, 2002. Advance data from vital and health statistics; no 362. Hyattsville, MD: National Center for Health Statistics. 2005.)
>Females 30-44 report an average of 4 male sexual partners in their lifetime
(same study)
>3% of men have had zero sexual partners since the age of 18, 20% have had 1 partner, 21% have had 2-4 partners, 23% have had 5-10 partners, 16% have had 11-20 partners, and 17% have had 21 or more partners
(Laumann, E., Gagnon, J.H., Michael, R.T., and Michaels, S. The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States. 1994. Chicago: University of Chicago Press (Also reported in the companion volume, Michael et al, Sex in America: A Definitive Survey, 1994).
>3% of women have had zero sexual partners since the age of 18, 31% have had 1 partner, 36% have had 2-4 partners, 20% have had 5-10 partners, 6% have had 11-20 partners, and 3% have had 21 or more partners
(same study).
......
My comments:
> I knew those averages you guys were spouting (12, as much as 40) was obviously high, so i looked into it. Keep in mind this study of 6-8 is what men "reported". Letting common sense serve you, do you think men will have a tendancy to report on the high side or the low? ;-)
> I was shocked to see that only 3% of men and women were still virgins by age 19. I would think this number would be much higher. Whew, glad i made it just in time (had sex for the first time at age 17)! This sounds low though so i might dig and see if i can confirm that.
Remember you told me that thing about it just being a d!ck slinging contest?
Well, let me just unzip these here pants cuz that last girl, (on my game thread), made 32.
Considering my age, I'm beginning to think I'm one of the more qualified posters on this forum. :yes:
C'mon, admit it. You love me. :yes: There ya go...
Rex I have read alot of posts on this forum, and you are for sure more qualified than most of these guys by far. Believe me. Your 21 and fransico is 39 and you have 10 times more game than he does.Rex Man said:
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
A d!ck slinging contest? You mean like when some one brags about how much ass they get? No it wouldnt be that, unless you helped contribute, but you're more mature than that right?Rex Man said:
Oops.
You do know that what you're doing (in this forum at least) is very AFC. You just made a qualifying statement. You say you are qualified. Well I know bunches of guys who get lots of poon, and their advice sucks. Just because you "get it" doesn't mean you can convey it to others.
Lookyoung... you sound like a brown noser.lookyoung said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No, I am just stating the obvious. By the way sorry for ruining this thread. By the way my numbers are in the mid twenties. Have had many girls that have given me just Bj's, and Hj's.Fortunate_Juan said:
Wait juan how many girls have you DONE?
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Fortunate_Juan
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Hey nosey, I don't even tell the girls I date. What makes you think I am going to tell some i-net tard?lookyoung said:
Oh yeah, and if lookyoung is a brown noser, I must be the king of brown nosing because I give compliments ALL THE TIME.
By the way, I was baiting Francisco becuase he's like the 'cool' older guy in this forum, and he gives me sh!t for being so immature. (Uh oh, there I go brown nosing again.
)One more thing.
Average - (I bagged above average)
Frustrated - Nahhhhh....
Chump - Eh, subjective
Oh yeah, and say what you want did you see how many approaches lookyoung just did?!?!?!?
He gets more respect because as far as I can tell, he doesn't really care about living to your AFC/DJ titles.....
I think he's like me, take life by the balls and just play the game.
Oh yeah, and before I forget.....
DA BEARS!!!!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.