"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How many girls have u done?
- Thread starter Nasman
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Alittude said:
I agree say what you want about guys like don ronny, skip2mylou, Playersupreme, Nasman, these guys were funny as hell. There personality really showed in there posts. These guys had charisma to them. They made this so suave interesting. And believe it or not were probably one of the biggest DJ's this site has ever seen.
All of them are banned now.
Imagine how much more insightful and interesting this place would be if you brought back these guys.Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You've got a little brown stuff on your nose... :moon:lookyoung said:I agree say what you want about guys like don ronny, skip2mylou, Playersupreme, Nasman, these guys were funny as hell. There personality really showed in there posts. These guys had charisma to them. They made this so suave interesting. And believe it or not were probably one of the biggest DJ's this site has ever seen.
All of them are banned now.
Francisco d'Anconia said:
Your the most worthless character on this site. No joke 97% of your posts are flames. You are the biggest retard on this site. Mr international 10,000 posts. Haven't you learned anything. Your the biggest suckup here, some people speak there minds, you don't. If I feel I am right I will go up against a mod, you wouldn't, you kiss ass.
Get off this site you are absolutely worthless. give us a field report MR. DON JUAN INTERNATIONAL.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Puberty still getting the best of 'ya huh?lookyoung said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia said:Puberty still getting the best of 'ya huh?
You sound like the biggest nerd. This is it I am done with you loser. I will not keep this flame going you dork. I am 3 levels above you. I will not respond to anything you have to say, unless it has something to do with seducing girls. Which you never post anyway. I wonder why????
Take care and have a nice life.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Do the forum a favor and promise that to everyone....lookyoung said:
T Money
Senior Don Juan
If I were like you TC, and had banged 21 girls I probably wouldn't remember the exact number.
I'm in good shape, 7 girls in 22 years. I know a 28 year old virgin so i'm coo.
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I agree wholeheartedly - free PR_L from the shackles of banishment hell - Mods, free him now or we''ll start an uprising!!!lookyoung said:I agree, say what you want about PuertoRican_Lover (PR_L) this guy was funny as hell. His personality really showed in his posts. This guy had charisma . He made this so suave interesting. And believe it or not is one of the biggest DJ's this site has ever seen.
He is banned now.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Don't encourage young impressionable minds.... :nono:Last Man Standing said:
(Mosher WD, Chandra A, Jones J. Sexual behavior and selected health measures: Men and women 15–44 years of age, United States, 2002. Advance data from vital and health statistics; no 362. Hyattsville, MD: National Center for Health Statistics. 2005.)
>Females 30-44 report an average of 4 male sexual partners in their lifetime
(same study)
>3% of men have had zero sexual partners since the age of 18, 20% have had 1 partner, 21% have had 2-4 partners, 23% have had 5-10 partners, 16% have had 11-20 partners, and 17% have had 21 or more partners
(Laumann, E., Gagnon, J.H., Michael, R.T., and Michaels, S. The Social Organization of Sexuality: Sexual Practices in the United States. 1994. Chicago: University of Chicago Press (Also reported in the companion volume, Michael et al, Sex in America: A Definitive Survey, 1994).
>3% of women have had zero sexual partners since the age of 18, 31% have had 1 partner, 36% have had 2-4 partners, 20% have had 5-10 partners, 6% have had 11-20 partners, and 3% have had 21 or more partners
(same study).
......
My comments:
> I knew those averages you guys were spouting (12, as much as 40) was obviously high, so i looked into it. Keep in mind this study of 6-8 is what men "reported". Letting common sense serve you, do you think men will have a tendancy to report on the high side or the low? ;-)
> I was shocked to see that only 3% of men and women were still virgins by age 19. I would think this number would be much higher. Whew, glad i made it just in time (had sex for the first time at age 17)! This sounds low though so i might dig and see if i can confirm that.
Remember you told me that thing about it just being a d!ck slinging contest?
Well, let me just unzip these here pants cuz that last girl, (on my game thread), made 32.
Considering my age, I'm beginning to think I'm one of the more qualified posters on this forum. :yes:
C'mon, admit it. You love me. :yes: There ya go...
Rex I have read alot of posts on this forum, and you are for sure more qualified than most of these guys by far. Believe me. Your 21 and fransico is 39 and you have 10 times more game than he does.Rex Man said:
Fortunate_Juan
Senior Don Juan
A d!ck slinging contest? You mean like when some one brags about how much ass they get? No it wouldnt be that, unless you helped contribute, but you're more mature than that right?Rex Man said:
Oops.
You do know that what you're doing (in this forum at least) is very AFC. You just made a qualifying statement. You say you are qualified. Well I know bunches of guys who get lots of poon, and their advice sucks. Just because you "get it" doesn't mean you can convey it to others.
Lookyoung... you sound like a brown noser.lookyoung said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No, I am just stating the obvious. By the way sorry for ruining this thread. By the way my numbers are in the mid twenties. Have had many girls that have given me just Bj's, and Hj's.Fortunate_Juan said:
Wait juan how many girls have you DONE?
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Hey nosey, I don't even tell the girls I date. What makes you think I am going to tell some i-net tard?lookyoung said:
Oh yeah, and if lookyoung is a brown noser, I must be the king of brown nosing because I give compliments ALL THE TIME.
By the way, I was baiting Francisco becuase he's like the 'cool' older guy in this forum, and he gives me sh!t for being so immature. (Uh oh, there I go brown nosing again.
)One more thing.
Average - (I bagged above average)
Frustrated - Nahhhhh....
Chump - Eh, subjective
Oh yeah, and say what you want did you see how many approaches lookyoung just did?!?!?!?
He gets more respect because as far as I can tell, he doesn't really care about living to your AFC/DJ titles.....
I think he's like me, take life by the balls and just play the game.
Oh yeah, and before I forget.....
DA BEARS!!!!!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.