Murk
Master Don Juan
Well you're at the right place, if you need help make a thread or even pm me directly.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How many chicks have you slept with?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sgthaytham
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I'm 28, and I've slept with half that. Not ashamed of it at all... Maybe if I wasn't such an oblivious **** it may have been more but whatever.
I agree that's it's quality over quantity. Not much worse than a bad lay.
Red Pill Divorce Lawyer
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Holy **** we need to get you laid my friend. PM if you have any questions.
Mike32ct
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That’s not unheard of today. But it definitely can be turned around.
Red Pill Divorce Lawyer
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Slay the dragons before you get to the princess.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mike32ct
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My first was a bigger girl. No regrets at all.
James, bigger or older is fine to get started and even beyond that.
GhostApe
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I think I'm just at or past 30 now. Late bloomer, serious anxiety issues, and have dealt with serious dry-spells in the past decade of my life.
Indifferent, really. I don't have much time to get out and sarge anymore, so when I do pick up, it's usually online game, or a matter of convenience when I run into the odd woman who is willing to put in the effort because I'm out of her league and she's not too unattractive.
Indifferent, really. I don't have much time to get out and sarge anymore, so when I do pick up, it's usually online game, or a matter of convenience when I run into the odd woman who is willing to put in the effort because I'm out of her league and she's not too unattractive.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I stopped counting in my mid twenties.. but recently I tried to make a "list" of all the girls I could remember just for my own curiosity. Right now the list is at 46. I probably missed a few, I was drunk for most of them and some girls are just not very rememberable.
thelambofdeth
Senior Don Juan
Not nearly enough lol...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Jesse Pinkman
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31 as of this year.
Mbuckets82
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8. Since my divorce, 2. Between work, kids, their activities, and the house I barely have time to invest time on working towards getting busy.
BillyPilgrim
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I've lost count but around 80
Pierce Manhammer
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The post that seems to reappear monthly…
Pierce Manhammer
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Can't believe i didnt reply to this thread years ago...Im at 150 plus right now, was in relationships a lot, but found "game" at 22, 34,35 now, pretty sad "numbers" but i recently got out of a 4 year relationship or it would of been much higher if i stayed single
How the heck do you get 30 in less than a year? Big US city, in your 20s, Tinder? What amazed me (in a sad way) is that many women will be doing the same thing. If you/one becomes a monogamous serious boyfriend with one of them, what's the chance they can go from riding the carousel to being with 1 guy only? Can girls put the brakes on like that?
In small towns or outside Asia or the US I think those numbers would be impossible. Amazing.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
I hit that number in my late 20s, like said, 34 now, 35 next month. But yes I agree, i live in New York with a population in the millions so it really does help to have that high number of people around me
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.