Murk
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Well you're at the right place, if you need help make a thread or even pm me directly.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How many chicks have you slept with?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sgthaytham
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I'm 28, and I've slept with half that. Not ashamed of it at all... Maybe if I wasn't such an oblivious **** it may have been more but whatever.
I agree that's it's quality over quantity. Not much worse than a bad lay.
Red Pill Divorce Lawyer
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Holy **** we need to get you laid my friend. PM if you have any questions.
Mike32ct
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That’s not unheard of today. But it definitely can be turned around.
Red Pill Divorce Lawyer
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Slay the dragons before you get to the princess.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mike32ct
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My first was a bigger girl. No regrets at all.
James, bigger or older is fine to get started and even beyond that.
GhostApe
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I think I'm just at or past 30 now. Late bloomer, serious anxiety issues, and have dealt with serious dry-spells in the past decade of my life.
Indifferent, really. I don't have much time to get out and sarge anymore, so when I do pick up, it's usually online game, or a matter of convenience when I run into the odd woman who is willing to put in the effort because I'm out of her league and she's not too unattractive.
Indifferent, really. I don't have much time to get out and sarge anymore, so when I do pick up, it's usually online game, or a matter of convenience when I run into the odd woman who is willing to put in the effort because I'm out of her league and she's not too unattractive.
Scars
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I stopped counting in my mid twenties.. but recently I tried to make a "list" of all the girls I could remember just for my own curiosity. Right now the list is at 46. I probably missed a few, I was drunk for most of them and some girls are just not very rememberable.
thelambofdeth
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Not nearly enough lol...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jesse Pinkman
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31 as of this year.
Mbuckets82
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8. Since my divorce, 2. Between work, kids, their activities, and the house I barely have time to invest time on working towards getting busy.
BillyPilgrim
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I've lost count but around 80
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The post that seems to reappear monthly…
Pierce Manhammer
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Crissco
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Can't believe i didnt reply to this thread years ago...Im at 150 plus right now, was in relationships a lot, but found "game" at 22, 34,35 now, pretty sad "numbers" but i recently got out of a 4 year relationship or it would of been much higher if i stayed single
How the heck do you get 30 in less than a year? Big US city, in your 20s, Tinder? What amazed me (in a sad way) is that many women will be doing the same thing. If you/one becomes a monogamous serious boyfriend with one of them, what's the chance they can go from riding the carousel to being with 1 guy only? Can girls put the brakes on like that?
In small towns or outside Asia or the US I think those numbers would be impossible. Amazing.
Crissco
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I hit that number in my late 20s, like said, 34 now, 35 next month. But yes I agree, i live in New York with a population in the millions so it really does help to have that high number of people around me
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.