“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zekko

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fair point, but then we have to dig deeper on what most women do not find the guys attractive

I think most of it stems from the fact that most guys are actually weird. Weird enough that not even other guys want to spend time with them
Some guys are weird, but I think it's simpler than that. I think the way nature is set up is women are designed to be attractive, which triggers the males to desire them. Women are literally designed to be the objects of sexual desire. Men are not, they're designed for protection, providing, and action. The women choose among the men who compete for them/desire them. Of course they want the best they can get. The way the current culture is, and the way they want to remove gender roles, it as set a lot of that on its head, which is why dating dynamics are kind of broken now.
 

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Why would I venture out to hostile Yukon when I have Alaska, British Columbia, Washington, and Oregon?
One gains table scraps or less, when he refuses to risk either much, or nothing at all. Seriously though, OP:

You don't have to visit nightclubs to meet women, great... Hell, I don't frequent such venues now that I've essentially aged out of them, and wasn't even a fan in my teens and 20s. Point remains though, a fella's dating and mating pool will be shallower than Herschel Walker's grasp of nuclear physics, if he confines himself to bowling alleys(No diss: I enjoy this particular activity myself)and D&D cons

If the company of high quality individuals is what you're in the market for, you'll have to meet them wherever they're located
 
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One gains table scraps or less, when he refuses to risk either much, or nothing at all. Seriously though, OP:

You don't have to visit nightclubs to meet women, great... Hell, I don't frequent such venues now that I've essentially aged out of them, and wasn't even a fan in my teens and 20s. Point remains though, a fella's dating and mating pool will be shallower than Herschel Walker's grasp of nuclear physics, if he confines himself to bowling alleys(No diss: I enjoy this particular activity myself)and D&D cons

If the company of high-quality individuals is what you're in the market for, you'll have to meet them wherever they're located
Let's be real, if you had actual options, I doubt you would go to a nightclub every week.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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