Locogooner
Don Juan
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I'm starting at skinny mode and think I can achieve this in about a year.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
6'0 150lbs skinnyfatjuicywa said:OP we need some concrete stats. We need to know what you mean by skinny because we all have different definitions of it.
Example:
On average you gain 2 lbs of muscle a month so in a year.. if you dont fvck around you can gain 25 lbs pure muscle.
If we used my definition of skinny (a 12 yr old boy), there's no way you are going to look like that in the picture. Because that 25lbs of muscle will be distributed evenly throughout the body. Noteable gains would be legs coz its got more muscle there.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
he's 6'1 185lbsQuiksilver said:Parts of that physique are very genetics-dependent.
For instance, the lower chest may be achievable for some and others would never achieve that "fullness" of the lower chest and the mass would instead be on the mid-upper chest.
I have already surpassed that level of musculature, however holding a little more body fat at the moment due to winter.
For a novice trainee, IMO 2-3 years of diligent training assuming average genetics.
Year 0-2 = strength training and conditioning.
Year 2-3 = bodybuilding and strength training.
I also cannot see the guys legs, and I don't know his stats.
He could be 5'6 140lbs or he could be 6'0 205lbs.
Probably got no legs then, or the lighting/angle makes him look bigger. Probably both.Locogooner said:he's 6'1 185lbs