“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alright, I met this girl at a tennis program last summer. I think she was interested, but stupidly, I never got her #, and the program ended. I suddenly thought about her the other day, and I found her on facebook. I asked her if she remembered me, and she said yes, and asked if I was going to do the program again.

I sent back some C&F message and asked her a genuine question as well. Now then...I plan on asking for her # soon, but do you think I should send a few messages back and forth before doing so? And then, once I get the #, should I call and set up a date right away (basically, there is hardly any rapport between us due to the fact that I haven't spoken to her in 10 months or so) or should I speak on the phone a few times with her first? Don't wanna fall into LJBF land here...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is tough. 10 months is a LONGGGG time, and you can be sure she didn't spend those 10 months pining over you. When I was younger, any time I got out of a relationship I would immediately contact all the HB's that had expressed interest in me at some point...man, that was a waste of time!
Girls FORGET how attracted they were to you pretty quick when you're not seeing them in face to face interactions. Your best bet is to run into her in person (maybe take the tennis program with her again?) and get the # then.

Never ask if a girl remembers you in a situation like this--if you're gonna insist on passive aggressive facebook-ing, I would send her an initial short C&F message and gauge her response...if it's formal or not particularly flirty, there's a good chance this one has forgot about you or is involved with someone else.

The number is an unnecessary step at this point. Just ask her to come with you on a fun outing on facebook if the rapport is good. She knows what's up....and asking for a # without giving a reason is pretty silly on facebook.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great response, thanks :)

I've been messaging back and forth with her...been pretty C&F and she seems to be going with it, but I'm kinda running out of things to say lol. I don't wanna talk too much through facebook, so I guess I will ask a few questions then ask her to hang out next weekend (because I'll tell her I'm busy this weekend...which I am).
 
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