"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
how long before its really love?
- Thread starter Ratman
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
oh you poor, poor noob
if you'd actually read between the lines of my reply, you'd understand. you can't really be in love with someone until your both fully mature, know what you want out of life and have found someone you love being with so much that you can happily spend the rest of your days with them. at the highschool age, love is just not possible. many guys (and girls) think they are in love but are barely experienced at life, and don't know what love truly is.
so actually think about what is said before you start whining about how everyones treating you so bad
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Denial. The first step is to get rid of it. Second, Mr. Debbionair has it right, more or less. While high school love can be serious, that is a one in a million chance.
Alpha_Animal
Don Juan
Hope I helped,
Animal.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Michael Chief
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Ratman, i think you're looking at "love" from too much of a logical/scientific perspective. "Love" is considered to have no constant in time.
Love promises nothing.
But, I'm not really one to elaborate on this. I'm only in high school...even though i honestly think i have been in "love" before. just once though.