"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how long before its really love?

Ratman

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so how long before its really love? not afc just bin wondering, i dont love anyone :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ratman

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ok abit harsh

theres a background to it just couldnt be bothered explaining

wheres this place gone its just fags now with crappy comments treatin everyone like a AFC
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by Ratman
ok abit harsh

theres a background to it just couldnt be bothered explaining

wheres this place gone its just fags now with crappy comments treatin everyone like a AFC
oh you poor, poor noob

if you'd actually read between the lines of my reply, you'd understand. you can't really be in love with someone until your both fully mature, know what you want out of life and have found someone you love being with so much that you can happily spend the rest of your days with them. at the highschool age, love is just not possible. many guys (and girls) think they are in love but are barely experienced at life, and don't know what love truly is.

so actually think about what is said before you start whining about how everyones treating you so bad
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ratman

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ok

1. im not whining just pointing somthing out cos it is true.
2. im not the one in love
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by Ratman
ok

1. im not whining just pointing somthing out cos it is true.
2. im not the one in love
Denial. The first step is to get rid of it. Second, Mr. Debbionair has it right, more or less. While high school love can be serious, that is a one in a million chance.
 

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This post is ridiculous. Love happens at unexpected times regardless of age. The true factor is maturity. You can be immature and still be in love with someone. I was. However a real relationship of a loving nature takes place under mature circumstances. Who are you to ridicule this guy? Shame on you.
 

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There was nothing in his post that specified that he was immature. I hate to take sides but your first reply to his post was more immature than his post, I know its annoying answering questions sometimes but its pointless in writing "when you grow up". To answer your question love can happen at any stage and at any age, but yes maturity is required for real love. I have not been in love yet but I'm only 15 so I guess "when you grow up" is the only time it takes place. Even if it's fake love your feeling it's not a bad thing just don't propose and marry or do anything stupid(like decide to have a baby together, know it sounds stupid but it happens) and it'll be fine. Just don't get reliant on her. Thats the main difference between AFC love and true love.

Hope I helped,
Animal.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Michael Chief

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You guys are trying to argue over something that's not really arguable, but here's my take on this.

Ratman, i think you're looking at "love" from too much of a logical/scientific perspective. "Love" is considered to have no constant in time.

Love promises nothing.

But, I'm not really one to elaborate on this. I'm only in high school...even though i honestly think i have been in "love" before. just once though.
 
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