"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how long before its really love?

Ratman

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so how long before its really love? not afc just bin wondering, i dont love anyone :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok abit harsh

theres a background to it just couldnt be bothered explaining

wheres this place gone its just fags now with crappy comments treatin everyone like a AFC
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by Ratman
ok abit harsh

theres a background to it just couldnt be bothered explaining

wheres this place gone its just fags now with crappy comments treatin everyone like a AFC
oh you poor, poor noob

if you'd actually read between the lines of my reply, you'd understand. you can't really be in love with someone until your both fully mature, know what you want out of life and have found someone you love being with so much that you can happily spend the rest of your days with them. at the highschool age, love is just not possible. many guys (and girls) think they are in love but are barely experienced at life, and don't know what love truly is.

so actually think about what is said before you start whining about how everyones treating you so bad
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok

1. im not whining just pointing somthing out cos it is true.
2. im not the one in love
 

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Originally posted by Ratman
ok

1. im not whining just pointing somthing out cos it is true.
2. im not the one in love
Denial. The first step is to get rid of it. Second, Mr. Debbionair has it right, more or less. While high school love can be serious, that is a one in a million chance.
 

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This post is ridiculous. Love happens at unexpected times regardless of age. The true factor is maturity. You can be immature and still be in love with someone. I was. However a real relationship of a loving nature takes place under mature circumstances. Who are you to ridicule this guy? Shame on you.
 

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There was nothing in his post that specified that he was immature. I hate to take sides but your first reply to his post was more immature than his post, I know its annoying answering questions sometimes but its pointless in writing "when you grow up". To answer your question love can happen at any stage and at any age, but yes maturity is required for real love. I have not been in love yet but I'm only 15 so I guess "when you grow up" is the only time it takes place. Even if it's fake love your feeling it's not a bad thing just don't propose and marry or do anything stupid(like decide to have a baby together, know it sounds stupid but it happens) and it'll be fine. Just don't get reliant on her. Thats the main difference between AFC love and true love.

Hope I helped,
Animal.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You guys are trying to argue over something that's not really arguable, but here's my take on this.

Ratman, i think you're looking at "love" from too much of a logical/scientific perspective. "Love" is considered to have no constant in time.

Love promises nothing.

But, I'm not really one to elaborate on this. I'm only in high school...even though i honestly think i have been in "love" before. just once though.
 
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