"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How is this line when you meet a girl from online the first time

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I'm thinking about saying this to a girl I am meeting from the net.

"Hey, I decided to meet here in this crowded place in case you are an axe wielding maniac"

You think she would laugh or it's too over the top? I want to make her laugh right off the bat.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's freaky, it will make her think something is wrong with you.. I'd smile and say hi, and introduce myself, instead.
 

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haha I'd say "wow you looked better on line, quick lets go to that internet cafe!"
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
I'm thinking about saying this to a girl I am meeting from the net.

"Hey, I decided to meet here in this crowded place in case you are an axe wielding maniac"

You think she would laugh or it's too over the top? I want to make her laugh right off the bat.
Just say - "Wow, you look so different." - and that's it.

Let her jump around you after that to know what you meant.:up:
 
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Alright I'll ditch the axe murderer line.

daygameguy said:
Just say - "Wow, you look so different." - and that's it.

Let her jump around you after that to know what you meant.:up:
I'm assuming after I say that I should follow up and say she looks better in real life, right?

I'm tired of all the games. I'm just going to be straightforward and not ****y and funny and see how I do.

That ****y funny stuff doesn't always work out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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its cause the balance of C & F is a delicate balance. The problem more often than none lies in the TOO ****Y PART.

U were on the right track...........just need a lil tweakin'. Pose a question "you're not an homicidal axe weilding man hater are you"

she would be more inclind to answer. You have some creativity just follow through with your thought and you should be good to go.
 
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