"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How is this line when you meet a girl from online the first time

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I'm thinking about saying this to a girl I am meeting from the net.

"Hey, I decided to meet here in this crowded place in case you are an axe wielding maniac"

You think she would laugh or it's too over the top? I want to make her laugh right off the bat.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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apusislaya

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It's freaky, it will make her think something is wrong with you.. I'd smile and say hi, and introduce myself, instead.
 

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haha I'd say "wow you looked better on line, quick lets go to that internet cafe!"
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
I'm thinking about saying this to a girl I am meeting from the net.

"Hey, I decided to meet here in this crowded place in case you are an axe wielding maniac"

You think she would laugh or it's too over the top? I want to make her laugh right off the bat.
Just say - "Wow, you look so different." - and that's it.

Let her jump around you after that to know what you meant.:up:
 
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Alright I'll ditch the axe murderer line.

daygameguy said:
Just say - "Wow, you look so different." - and that's it.

Let her jump around you after that to know what you meant.:up:
I'm assuming after I say that I should follow up and say she looks better in real life, right?

I'm tired of all the games. I'm just going to be straightforward and not ****y and funny and see how I do.

That ****y funny stuff doesn't always work out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its cause the balance of C & F is a delicate balance. The problem more often than none lies in the TOO ****Y PART.

U were on the right track...........just need a lil tweakin'. Pose a question "you're not an homicidal axe weilding man hater are you"

she would be more inclind to answer. You have some creativity just follow through with your thought and you should be good to go.
 
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