"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How is this line when you meet a girl from online the first time

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I'm thinking about saying this to a girl I am meeting from the net.

"Hey, I decided to meet here in this crowded place in case you are an axe wielding maniac"

You think she would laugh or it's too over the top? I want to make her laugh right off the bat.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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apusislaya

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It's freaky, it will make her think something is wrong with you.. I'd smile and say hi, and introduce myself, instead.
 

Desert Fox

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haha I'd say "wow you looked better on line, quick lets go to that internet cafe!"
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
I'm thinking about saying this to a girl I am meeting from the net.

"Hey, I decided to meet here in this crowded place in case you are an axe wielding maniac"

You think she would laugh or it's too over the top? I want to make her laugh right off the bat.
Just say - "Wow, you look so different." - and that's it.

Let her jump around you after that to know what you meant.:up:
 
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Alright I'll ditch the axe murderer line.

daygameguy said:
Just say - "Wow, you look so different." - and that's it.

Let her jump around you after that to know what you meant.:up:
I'm assuming after I say that I should follow up and say she looks better in real life, right?

I'm tired of all the games. I'm just going to be straightforward and not ****y and funny and see how I do.

That ****y funny stuff doesn't always work out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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its cause the balance of C & F is a delicate balance. The problem more often than none lies in the TOO ****Y PART.

U were on the right track...........just need a lil tweakin'. Pose a question "you're not an homicidal axe weilding man hater are you"

she would be more inclind to answer. You have some creativity just follow through with your thought and you should be good to go.
 
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