Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How is this line when you meet a girl from online the first time

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I'm thinking about saying this to a girl I am meeting from the net.

"Hey, I decided to meet here in this crowded place in case you are an axe wielding maniac"

You think she would laugh or it's too over the top? I want to make her laugh right off the bat.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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apusislaya

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It's freaky, it will make her think something is wrong with you.. I'd smile and say hi, and introduce myself, instead.
 

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haha I'd say "wow you looked better on line, quick lets go to that internet cafe!"
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
I'm thinking about saying this to a girl I am meeting from the net.

"Hey, I decided to meet here in this crowded place in case you are an axe wielding maniac"

You think she would laugh or it's too over the top? I want to make her laugh right off the bat.
Just say - "Wow, you look so different." - and that's it.

Let her jump around you after that to know what you meant.:up:
 
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Alright I'll ditch the axe murderer line.

daygameguy said:
Just say - "Wow, you look so different." - and that's it.

Let her jump around you after that to know what you meant.:up:
I'm assuming after I say that I should follow up and say she looks better in real life, right?

I'm tired of all the games. I'm just going to be straightforward and not ****y and funny and see how I do.

That ****y funny stuff doesn't always work out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its cause the balance of C & F is a delicate balance. The problem more often than none lies in the TOO ****Y PART.

U were on the right track...........just need a lil tweakin'. Pose a question "you're not an homicidal axe weilding man hater are you"

she would be more inclind to answer. You have some creativity just follow through with your thought and you should be good to go.
 
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